tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55532501364780143.post4149306221589224407..comments2024-03-29T14:30:36.976+00:00Comments on Kindred of the Quiet Way: ToastUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55532501364780143.post-3492592351735920772014-05-19T16:42:09.256+01:002014-05-19T16:42:09.256+01:00:0) xx:0) xxPen Wilcockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13818227904371811230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55532501364780143.post-65035374383867963662014-05-19T13:39:23.499+01:002014-05-19T13:39:23.499+01:00My useful skill is to be who I am. Because that is...My useful skill is to be who I am. Because that is who and what He made me to be.The blessing in aging is that I have been able to achieve a much higher degree of congruity with that as I care less and less about what anyone else thinks I should be.<br />The toast article was linked before I think. It was wonderful, and thought provoking.<br />DMWAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55532501364780143.post-45840850153651634282014-03-31T16:26:53.897+01:002014-03-31T16:26:53.897+01:00Hope you're soon feeling all better! xHope you're soon feeling all better! xPen Wilcockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13818227904371811230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55532501364780143.post-68182412774040209932014-03-31T15:40:11.944+01:002014-03-31T15:40:11.944+01:00In bed recovering from flu and catching up with yo...In bed recovering from flu and catching up with your posts. What a great article, combonong bravery, unlikely friendship,food fadism, and schizoaffective disorder. Thanks for sharing it!I hope she gets to build the halfway house.<br />DMWAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55532501364780143.post-62102850004341909342014-03-25T16:43:08.551+00:002014-03-25T16:43:08.551+00:00:0) God bless and prosper you. xx:0) God bless and prosper you. xxPen Wilcockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13818227904371811230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55532501364780143.post-11078150608803113192014-03-25T13:42:15.939+00:002014-03-25T13:42:15.939+00:00I love the article, especially today after receivi...I love the article, especially today after receiving my 92,523rd "Thank you for recent application....We wish you luck in your job search" letter just this morning. Thanks ever so much, Pen, for linking to it. I've been considering a similar pathway of late and this bolsters my courage.Jennanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55532501364780143.post-66388460805234783422014-03-19T15:02:22.448+00:002014-03-19T15:02:22.448+00:00Yes - she has allowed herself to be a sign of enco...Yes - she has allowed herself to be a sign of encouragement, in a difficult world.Pen Wilcockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13818227904371811230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55532501364780143.post-10298590863944812492014-03-19T14:14:52.225+00:002014-03-19T14:14:52.225+00:00I thought the article was fantastic. I admire this...I thought the article was fantastic. I admire this young woman so much, as I know even the mildest kind of mental illness can be paralyzing. I have always thought toast was simple and sort of soothing. Seems apt that something simple and soothing would be something she would do, needing that herself, and offering it to others in this crazy world who don't know they need simple and soothing. :) Thank you for sharing, Ember. xoxoJulie Fnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55532501364780143.post-7429161760781549262014-03-18T22:48:22.649+00:002014-03-18T22:48:22.649+00:00Hello, friends - yes, I think what she has put in ...Hello, friends - yes, I think what she has put in place here will be an inspiration and real help to many. Pen Wilcockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13818227904371811230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55532501364780143.post-45634734747337725732014-03-18T18:19:58.234+00:002014-03-18T18:19:58.234+00:00Pen, I found the article interesting on several le...Pen, I found the article interesting on several levels. Just free-associating:<br /><br />1. My father lived in San Francisco in the late 1940s. Before the tourist trade took over the cable cars. It was simply home for him. I grew up visiting his friends about once a year or so. I remember one day we visited, and my father told us afterwards that he was shouted at by the cable car operator when he just swung himself up onto the car. "Don't you see all those people waiting for a ride, Mac?! Get at the end of the line!"<br /><br />2. I now live in Ohio. Moving away from California allowed me to see how the rest of the world views that state--and San Francisco. Giulietta's family is from Cleveland, and so I get that too.<br /><br />3. I know/have known my share of mentally ill people. This woman is an amazing example of one who has managed to exist in the world despite a terrible illness. Nothing she is doing is in order to be a trendsetter. <br /><br />4. Fads can start anywhere. And I have sometimes gotten ahead of the curve. When my hobbies of quilting and genealogy became lasting fads a few short years after I began, it wasn't as fun. No longer did other quilters or genealogists feel original to me. The trends were on.<br /><br />I honor this woman. I wish her peace. And I tip my cinnamon toast in her direction.<br /><br />(Final note: Has the British term "twee" become faddish in San Francisco? The author used it twice. I've never heard anyone say "twee" unless they were British themselves.)Paulanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55532501364780143.post-62731661220999110962014-03-18T18:07:46.122+00:002014-03-18T18:07:46.122+00:00Excellent article, me too, thrive on lots of weak...Excellent article, me too, thrive on lots of weak tiesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55532501364780143.post-80102489573671494532014-03-18T12:44:04.289+00:002014-03-18T12:44:04.289+00:00I didn't read the whole way through. I promise...I didn't read the whole way through. I promise I'll go back and read the rest later today :-D I just got so cross at the first bit. It really does annoy me all the food fads that people buy into and spend too much money on when there are people going without food so that their kids can eat. :-/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55532501364780143.post-3116892359390967022014-03-18T09:36:21.401+00:002014-03-18T09:36:21.401+00:00That 3-days-a-week option could be a good stepping...That 3-days-a-week option could be a good stepping stone?Pen Wilcockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13818227904371811230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55532501364780143.post-78531427351592793532014-03-18T09:19:03.048+00:002014-03-18T09:19:03.048+00:00I really loved this article - thank you for sharin...I really loved this article - thank you for sharing it. I spent a lot of time thinking about it afterwards and reflecting a great deal <br /><br />I love how she is setting up a way of coping which will lead to her helping others who are struggling coping too. <br /><br />As for building ou own damn house - hmmm. So interesting. For me that is about making yourself a situation which is comfortabe for you. Interesting you mention self employment as that is where I am at the moment, however an excellent 'proper' job has coome up 3 days a week so I can carry on with my self employment, but with a bit of security .<br /><br />I am tempted I have to say!<br /><br />Thanks for sharing such thought provking stuff!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55532501364780143.post-74821968533676913872014-03-18T06:26:20.657+00:002014-03-18T06:26:20.657+00:00You read it all the way through, Debs? Yes, I gue...You read it all the way through, Debs? Yes, I guess there'll always be fads but what struck me was the lady's courage and the ways she'd found to make her life work.Pen Wilcockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13818227904371811230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55532501364780143.post-72863938977644567982014-03-18T00:13:14.296+00:002014-03-18T00:13:14.296+00:00It's sad and it's tragic and like the Empo...It's sad and it's tragic and like the Emporer's New Clothes someone will burst the collective bubble and everyone will realise they have been sucked into yet another overpriced and pointless fad. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55532501364780143.post-61930257067241442482014-03-17T16:30:04.757+00:002014-03-17T16:30:04.757+00:00Oh, yes! I come from a family in which self-emplo...Oh, yes! I come from a family in which self-employment has been the norm for generations, and that feels like a trustworthy route to me.Pen Wilcockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13818227904371811230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55532501364780143.post-91794511292866096582014-03-17T16:21:20.698+00:002014-03-17T16:21:20.698+00:00'Build Your Own Damn House'- don't you...'Build Your Own Damn House'- don't you think that is the most useful advice ever? I wish we were all taught that in primary school! I have spent about 50 years learning this and I still slip up, but it's good to be reminded!Heathernoreply@blogger.com